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That rage and the hurt and confusion and all the other stuff you’re feeling will eat away at you until you’re empty, and then not only will you have nothing left to give your marriage, but you’ll have nothing for your children either. Please go to therapy and deal with this ugliness bravely. And don’t make any decision about whether to stay with your husband or not until you’ve worked through the stages of grief, including getting angry at him. And the feeling of security and confidence you think you have when you’re with your husband, weeks after learning he screwed your mom while you were asleep in the other room, nine months pregnant with his baby, is false.

And that’s not something you can even begin to rebuild trust and a relationship on.

Don’t rush back into his arms and don’t make the mistake of sweeping this under the rug and moving forward like nothing happened because you think that’s easier and less painful and will keep your family intact.

Living in denial won’t really keep your family intact. It won’t get rid of the rage inside you that needs some place to go. And until you accept that he is just as responsible for having sex with your mother as she is for having sex with him, you aren’t ready to move forward.

I walked swiftly across the house and into my mother’s room and confronted her, asking her if she had something going on with my husband. Six weeks after my pregnancy I did just that, but I couldn’t shake the feeling that there had been something more to their messages.

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